Love & Hip Hop Hollywood or HollyWEIRD

Maaaaaaaaaan, Ray and Teairra Mari has got to get it together. It's either you want to be together or you don't. How annoying is it to have to deal with nonsense all season long. Love is not fairy tale, however always wanting to fight for the person you love isn't always a good idea. Be seen not heard can bring good riddance.
This season Ray has a new boo! I mean who cares? But it seems like drama in hell, the heat is boiling. His new girlfriend Princess seems to be jealous of Teairra. When will women act like women. On bossip, front page, there is a picture of Ray J and Teairra and the caption sums up how he kicked Princess to the curb. What really real, love and hip hop or love and hollyweird?

Gossip Social Media

Ever think about what's trending out there and why? Why is your favorite author being called file names? Who's having a divorce? These specific topics within itself are all gossip. It's to catch your attention and feed your head and timelines some serious drama.

www.bossip.com is a website full of drama to catch up on! We all love it don't we! People catch so much shade on others that it seems impossible to not be aware about the most obvious. No one care's about Kim K's butt anymore, but whoa, Iggy's sex tape that's some serious heat right there. 

But then you have www.mediatakeout.com where everything is bold, down to the letters ya'll. whatever is popular, you must believe will be the first thing you see when you go to tr website. Right now, it's about Omarion and his girlfriend Apryl. Is the baby really his? 

Gossip, fun to do, but not so fun when it's you. 

Research Blog Post 5/ Field Work Plan

In the dictionary it states that misogyny is hatred of women.

1.      Do you feel women inflict hatred against each other because of their beauty? Please explain. 

Responses
kimberly M-  To me, jealousy is a form of hatred but only in one's self. i feel asthough the person must hate them selve because the only way you are jealous of someone else is if you believe you are not good enough or as good as them..
shaquira- Yes, jealously is a form of hatred because your taking the same negative energy you would to hate on someone and using that to be jealous of someone. Its the same thing to me.
jordan- I Think Jealousy Is A Sign Of Admiration. In Some Cases It Can Be Seen As Hatred, Or Intimidation, But Jealousy Is Very Natural To Say The Least.
erica-  ummm yes and then no. yes because when your jealous of someone sometimes you do things that only a person who dislikes you would do. no because you may just want the things they have that don't mean you hate them.
Essence Draper-  Jealousy is a not a form of hatred.You could be jealous of somebody in a good way.. Or there's bad jealousy where u secretly want what some1 got but in denial about it.
Sherrita Hall- jealousy is a very small form of hatered because both jealousy and hatered deal with the dislike of someone or something. Hatred is just the extreme of the two. when jealousy comes into play this means a person is in dislike of something so much that they feel uncomortable to the point where they are upset with the attention that is being recieved from this act. if they feel that the action being given should only belong to them then the jealous factor comes into play. but they do not dislike this action too the point where they cant stand it and it absoultey turns their smile upsdie down.

jasmin Feliciano-  I don’t think hatred is from jealousy! I think it from someone not having what the other person have and they can’t they can’t have it.

Kim Demair- No. You can experience one of them without the other. You can be jealous of someone but not hate them, and instead be infatuated with them and want what they have. Hatred can come across as a lot of things and one of them is jealously. I think that’s why people get them confused.

kiarah b - in a way it could because when someone is jealous it is because they admire something about that person,wishing they could have what they admire making they dislike that person for it, which could turn into hate.

- Sarah Patch:  No, I think jealousy is a result of insecurity or lack of trust.

-katherine grayson - I don’t think jealousy is a form of hatred, I believe it is about feeling inadequacy in society or relationships.  I think that jealousy can lead to hatred in some cases because people focus on the jealousy too intensely because of their insecurities. 

-vicky ortega-  I don’t think so, I think jealousy is just a natural feeling that people experience, mostly for material things that they wished they had. I think you can be happy for someone but still feel jealous about not having what they have. Most of the time people get over this feeling. Hatred is too strong of a feeling to connect to jealous, especially when jealousy can be a mild fleeting feeling.

- jahanna    --  I think that when someone is jealous of you it’s not the fact that they hate you; they are just those types of people who just probably want what you have so they do things to make you mad and get your attention. That’s why they say smart comments to make you upset and give them the reaction that they want. But if you just ignore them eventually they will back off.

  2. Do you feel women inflict hatred against each other because of their beauty? Please explain.
Kim M-

i do believe that they do, but only because they view themselves as ugly.. if they learned to love themselves.. they wouldn't act certain ways towards one n other

shaquira- Most times women do inflict hatred against each other because of beauty,
... As women we all want to be beautiful, which we are but some women can't see that so they hate on the next women if they find her more attractive then they are or even slightly more attractive... when really all we should do as women is learn to pay each other compliments instead of hating on one another
jordan- i Think Some Women Judge People Based On How They Look, If They Wear Too Little Clothing, They Assume That They Are Easy, Or If They Wear Too Much Clothing, They See Them As A goody- Goody. But Their Insecurities as well can prevent them from getting to know them.
erica- most of the time this is the case. you have an not so attractive girl according to the standards of society and then you have a girl who gets the attention of a lot of boys .they also show hatred towards each other because of other things but beauty is one of them. so the answer to your question is yes.
Essence- I think women inflict jealousy not always hatred because of their own insecurities or what they are being taught what's ok and what's not, not jus because of beauty.
 sherrita Hall-  yes i do believe that women inflict hatred against each other because of their beauty, because of the world/society that we live in today. everyone is brain washed to believe that they have to look, act, think, feel, and conform in a certain mannor to be accepted or wanted or loved, or even get attention paid to them in general. our world makes beauty seem like it's only in a persons look, or size, or style and beauty is beyond skin deep. so that notion would make other women envoy and hate another women because they believe that they have something that another women doesnt have or needs in thier live to survivie and that is far from true.

jasmin F-  I think for the one that have low expectation of themselves so they hide it behind they beauty and make it seem that they are better than other

kim-  In some situations yes. For example, many people express hatred towards celebrities for their beauty and success but how many of these people have actually met the celebrity? I think a lot of women bully each other because of their differences. What I may see as beauty some one else may see as ugly. So it is also dependent on someone’s personal opinion.

kiarah b- most definitely, insecure women hate other women who have things that they don’t have.

- Sarah Patch:  I think women are taught by society to compete against one another, and in a society that places a great deal of value on physical beauty, this becomes a point of competition. I don’t see this as hatred, but rather a ‘survival of the fittest’ attitude. There is the perception and reality that physical beauty will give you greater opportunity, more wealth, better friends, a better love life, etc.

-katherine grayson- I think that it happens unfortunately because images are drilled into our heads about needing to look a certain way.  When we see someone that looks how we think we should look ourselves, it can bring lots of negativity and hatred.  To answer the question, I think society is more at fault for inflicting beauty-caused hatred than women are.

vicky-  I guess some women could, I’ve seen people dislike others for the most trivial things such as their appearance. I think it depends on the person and how insecure they are with their own beauty. 

jahanna-        Of course, I think that women definitely inflict hatred among other woman because of their beauty. The reason I that I think this is because women think that when they are beautiful, they get the most attention from guys, so they use that to their advantage but what they don’t realize is that they are getting the wrong attention. They start to give off this attitude like nothing can touch them. If they see someone who they would consider “under them,” they once again put them down like they are ugly. Everyone has beauty in their own way.

3.  Do you feel women show hatred against each other in everyday life?
kim M-

i do not believe all women do but many women show hatred against one n other in everyday life but some dont

shaquira- Yes, most of the time women do
jordan- I Do Feel That women inflict hatred on other women everyday.
erica-
yes. everyday you hear someone talking "oh she a hater or she hating on me or she phony and fake " now a days everyone is a hater and from my experience most of the time its women. i notice if you say something that people don't like to hear or you don't agree with them you suddenly become a hater. women argue and fight over many things. men, money, and looks. or because someone was talking about them.
Essence-  i think some show jealous not just hatred everyday..but not every women

Sherrita Hall- yes women do show harted towards each other in their day life by not being themselves and comforming to the styles and notions of society and acting in manors that is not like how where are women should confrom to act at all.

jasmin f-  Of course they do and it a shame that they do that. We need to help each others to get thru life as women

kim- I’m sure it happens every day, somewhere.

kiarah b-  yes, especially celebrities.

-sarah patch I think women show disrespect and cruelty in how they treat one another because of their own insecurity or a belief that they have more power.

-katherine-

I feel that women express hatred in everyday life sometimes. Honestly, I think expressing, even feeling hatred of other women for superficial reasons is in a way immature.  Women who surround themselves with hatred should try to let go of the things that trouble them and accept that everyone is different.  We cannot expect others to live as we do, and we should not put ourselves down for being different.

jahanna-

1.       Yes, I don’t know why because most people say that women are supposed to “stick together” but I think it’s just a mentality that women have. We seem to just judge people before we get the chance to know them. That’s not the fair thing to do but we just do. Maybe the other reason is that women just think that they always have to prove something to the next girl when that’s not the case.

-vicky-  Yes, again I’ve seen this happen. Most of the time it is just a misunderstanding, such as someone giving someone a “dirty” look when in fact they could have just been having a terrible day and happened to accidently look at a person that way. However, I don’t know if I’d go as far to call it hatred, but it is a form of dislike.

4.  Do women show hatred toward women more than men?
Kim M- 

i do not believe all women do but many women show hatred against one n other in everyday life but some dont

i believe that we all show hatred. it's according to the type of person you are not ur gender.. if you love yourself yu wont show hatred whether you are a woman or man

i believe that men hate gay men for than women hate lesbians

but women are more worried about the other url lookin better than them

shaquira- Yes way more than men do, usually men pay each other compliments but women have a hard time doing that for some odd reason
jordan- I think they do inflict hatred on women more than men.
erica-
today in time yes. if you ask a lot of girls would they rather hang out with girls or boys i'm sure they would say boys because they don't like girls. yes you have some men who are disrespectful to some women like in videos and music and things but i don't think they hate them. they like to be around women just for things they want. like sex and or love.
Essence-  Women show more hatred for the simple fact that guys r supposedly meant to play it cool
Sherrita Hall- I do believe that women show hatered to other women more than men, because I believe that every women looks down on another. and since we act a certain way towards each other is kind of gives a pass to men and people in general to do the same. but only a woman would know how to bring another woman down or to even cause them pain.

jasmin F-  I think the women show hatred more toward women than men. The women make it competition toward each others. That a shame in many ways

kim-  I think women are more competitive towards each other with appearances than men are with each other; so it may come across as hatred.

kiarah b-   depends on the persons personality. some women cant stand other women while some women just hate men.

- sarah patch-  I don’t know if it is more or less, but rather a different form of dislike. In the end it seems to be about power, but men and women have different levels of power in society so their cruelty to one another takes on different forms.

-katherine-I would probably say yes, only because I feel that with men, it isn’t hatred as much as competition.  Men seem to feel the need to compete more, while women sometimes seem to focus more on their dislike for someone rather than the need to prove themselves.

vicky-  I don’t know I think it depends on the person and what they value. I think hate is a very strong word to use, so it depends on what that person hates and what factors make that person hate others. I think some things to keep in mind are that women are also biologically more emotional than men, meaning that body language and nonverbal communication can mean more to women than men. Men tend to focus more on verbal communication so the way they communicate nonverbally (posture stare, tone of voice) might affect women less.

jahanna-       Yes and no. I think women show hatred towards other women because the way that they look. If they see someone who is different from them they are already hate them. Plus women hate women because they see that girl as someone who may want to try and get at their man. I think women only show hatred towards men, if they did something to hurt them or if they had bad experiences with them in the past. So they build a wall to prevent them from being hurt again. That’s why I say my answer is a yes and no.

5.       Do women give men the right to inflict hatred on them?
Kim M-  women do give men the right because they allow men to say certain things and do certain things. not all do. but if some women allow men to act a certain way.. then the men are not gonna change for the other women unless they are a decent man then they wouldn't even fall for that trap
shaquira- Yes, one because we don't embrace our own beauty as women and two because we allow ourselves to hate on the next women so bad that they feel as though since we do it, why cant they do it as well.
jordan- Women Allow men to inflict hatred on women especially if they are a couple. its almost a loyalty thing.
erica- i don't think they give them the right willingly they don't like it they just accept it. i guess that's like giving them the right.
Essence-  Women in a way sometimes give men a right to inflict but then there r those mean who were already brought up in a environment where it was accepted
Sherrita Hall- I would not agree and say that women give men the right to inflict haterd on them. but they do open the doorway for this actions to be done because they do these same things to each other. and it is inviting to men to think well if they do it then this must be okay. or this must be what they are used to. so they act accordinly.

jasmin-  No not at all that women’s give the right for the men to inflict hatred on them. They do it because they know that they are stronger in body.

kim-  Some women may. But I think it depends on the individual.

kiarah b-  no , some men believe that because women are different from them that they have a reason to inflict hatred on them. when really, they are to be equal.

- sarah patch No one ever gives anyone else the right to inflict hatred on them. That’s just blaming the victim.

 -katherine-I do not believe women give the right.  I believe that because of old generalizations and stereotypes, some women still believe that their roles are to let men have the power over them.  But in the end, I feel that anyone can let someone inflict hatred upon him or her if they don’t have enough self-esteem.  As long as someone believes in them self, no one can make them feel like they deserve to be hated.

vicky-  I’m not quite sure I understand this question? I don’t think anyone wants to be hated or gives anyone the right to hate them. I actually don’t think anyone has the right to hate anyone unless they have done something that personally affects them, that hurt them or upset them in one way or another. I don’t think women do anything more worthy then men to be hated for. Sure, women are a little more expressive and might value different things then men but it’s not a good reason for men to hate women, it’s kind of like hating someone (even of the same gender) just because they’re different then you. 

jahanna-       Of course not because no women is going to take a man’s bullshit for 1.  We women are strong so we let them know right up front how things are going to go and if they don’t like it then we usually say ooh well and keep it moving. But some women aren’t like that.
6.  6. Do you think you are misogynistic?
sherrita Hall-   No I do not believe that I am misogynic, but because of the society that I grew up in and the one that I currently live in I do have misogynic tendecny. Some that are in plain view, and others that are not so tranparently seen to the naked eye.
jahanna- i do not think that i am a misogynyistic person. if that even makes sense. i think that people are who they are. i think the only way i would honestly feel like that about someone would be if i really didnt like that person and they got on my nerves then that would of gave me a reason t hate them or not like them. other than that when it comes to certain things, i don't think that i am a misogynyistic person because that's just not my thing. i classify that as someone who likes drama and likes to start conflict which is the total opposite from the type of person that i am.
kiarah- i will admit i will hate another women but that is because she has done something disrespectful to me personally. and its not even hate its just me not liking that girl. other wise i wouldn't hate someone because of their beauty or even feel jelous but admire what that girl has.